Does this sound like you?
Many couples struggle silently, thinking they're alone in their challenges. If you recognize yourself in any of these situations, you're exactly where you need to be.
Stuck in frustrating arguments?
You find yourself in the same conflicts that never seem to get resolved. The conversation goes in circles, and you both end up feeling unheard and misunderstood.
Growing distance.
That closeness you once felt seems to be slipping away. You live more like roommates than romantic partners, with emotional and physical intimacy fading.
Repeating patterns.
The same issues keep coming up despite your best efforts. You feel trapped in patterns that damage your connection and leave you both feeling frustrated.
See what past participants have to say about the retreat:
Colin C.
"For those who are considering joining the retreat: DO IT!! As a practicing therapist for 17 years, having experienced the learning, growth and transformation personally and witnessed it in others over just two days, I will be highly recommending it to my clients, friends and family!"
Jim & Deb
Lynda K.
"Dr. Lee's retreat was beyond expectation. It was packed with insightful information delivered with such compassion and understanding. Dr. Lee was not only intelligent but kind and humble. Dr. Lee is so approachable and real, I look forward to working with her more."
Lise
Lucia Z.
"Dr. Lee's retreat was beyond expectation. It was packed with insightful information delivered with such compassion and understanding. Dr. Lee was not only intelligent but kind and humble. Dr. Lee is so approachable and real, I look forward to working with her more."
"I left the weekend feeling deeply inspired and equipped with practical tools that I’ve already started to integrate into my daily life. Dr. Lee’s wisdom and guidance created such a safe and powerful space for growth, and I’m truly grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of it."
Will & Ching
Andy W.
"Dr. Lee is kind, articulate, inspiring and extremely relatable. She's clearly an expert but she comports herself like a friend and confidant. My partner and I adore her!"
Andrew
Transform Your Relationship Journey
Experience a powerful transformation in your relationship as you leave behind old patterns and embrace new possibilities for connection.
What you'll leave behind:
Feeling disconnected and emotionally distant
Communication that leads to misconduct and misunderstanding
Difficulty understanding each other's needs
Feeling stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns
Diminished intimacy and connection
What you'll embrace:
Deeper emotional intimacy and connection
Tools to resolve conflicts and break patterns
Clear, effective communication strategies
A better understanding of each other's perspectives
Renewed passion and connection
What to Expect
Relationship Reboot Retreat - Relational Life Therapy offers a transformative experience designed to help you and your partner develop a deeper understanding and stronger connection.
Safe Environment
Experience a welcoming nonjudgmental space where you can explore relationship dynamics with expert guidance.
Proven Effective Tools
Learn practical communication techniques and conflict resolution strategies based on proven relationship tools.
Personalized Support
With limited registration you'll receive individualized guidance tailored to your relationship's unique challenges.
See what past participants have to say about the retreat:
Ching H.
Andy
Lucia Z.
Sally
Beyond just learning skills...
Why skills alone aren't enough - we address the part of you that resists change.
Picture this:
You've invested time learning exactly how to communicate effectively with your partner during difficult conversations. You understand the theory and know the right words to use. But when tensions rise and emotions flare, what happens to those carefully learned skills?
They often vanish just when you need them most.
This happens because...
Under stress, we don't operate from our rational, thoughtful self - we default to protective patterns established early in life. Therapists call this our "adaptive child" - the part of us that developed survival strategies long ago but now interferes with authentic connection.
The withdrawer:
You might shut down completely when conflicts arise, physically present but emotionally gone - creating even more distance.
The Defender:
You might become reactive and defensive, fighting back before you've even processed what's happening - escalating small issues into major conflicts.
The accommodator:
You might rush to fix things and keep peace at any cost - gradually losing your authentic voice and building unconscious resentment.
What makes this retreat different?
In this retreat, you'll identify these unconscious patterns and learn how to work with them directly. You'll discover how to recognize your reactive patterns before they take over, techniques to stay present during emotional moments, the specific childhood origins of your relationship triggers, how to show up as your authentic self capable of true intimacy and trust.
What makes this approach different?
I don't just teach skills - I help you identify and transform these unconscious patterns at their source, so your new relationship tools actually work when you need them most.
The Relational Life Therapy Method
Relationship Reboot Retreat - Relational Life Therapy is grounded in Terry Real's groundbreaking relational life therapy (RLT) approach. This powerful methodology gets to the heart of relationship dynamics quickly and effectively.
Who should join this retreat?
Relationship Reboot Retreat-Relational Life Therapy welcomes participants at various stages of the relationship journey.
Couples
- Dating, engaged, or married couples
- Couples experiencing relationship difficulties
- Partners wanting to deepen their connection
Individuals
- People preparing for future relationships
- Those healing from past relationship wounds
- Those seeking to understand their patterns
Mental Health Professionals
- Therapists and counselors
- Relationship coaches
- Practitioners seeking new approaches
Meet Your Guide:
Dr. Gloria Lee
Dr. Gloria Lee is a well-respected authority on relationships, marriage, and family dynamics with over 25 years of experience helping thousands transform their lives from disconnection to fulfillment.
As a Registered Psychologist, award-winning best-selling author, and certified Relational Life Therapist trained directly by Terry Real, Dr. Lee combines evidence-based techniques with a direct, provocative approach that clients say sets her apart.
Couples appreciate her ability to immediately assess the root causes of relationship problems and provide practical, transformative skills that create lasting positive change.
Credentials & Expertise:
- Doctor of Clinical Psychology
- Master of Marriage & Family Counseling
- Author of The Connected Couple: 7 Secrets to Transform Your Relationship (Amazon #1 Best-Seller)
- Clinical Director at Brentwood Counselling Centre
- Professor of Counseling Psychology, University of British Columbia
- Advanced Training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Gottman Couples Therapy, and Relational Life Therapy
Your investment includes everything you need for a transformative relationship experience.
Here's What You'll Receive:
Two Full Days of Immersive Training
Intensive Retreat experience with Dr. Gloria Lee
Practical Relationship Tools
Concrete techniques you can implement immediately
Safe Learning Environment
A supportive space to practice new skills
Guided opportunities to apply new skills with your partner
Partner Communication Practice
Professional Guidance
Direct coaching from Dr. Gloria Lee
Comprehensive Workbook
Take-home materials to continue your progress
Small Group Setting
Limited participants for personalized attention
Transformative Exercises
Experiential activities for deep personal insight
Community Support
Connect with others on similar journeys
Priority Opportunity
To join ongoing small group coaching (optional)
Retreat Details:
Venue:
Executive Suites Hotel Metro Vancouver
4201 Lougheed Highway, Burnaby, BC, V5C 3Y6
Dates:
January 24 – January 25, 2026
(Saturday and Sunday)
Times:
9:00 AM – 5:00 PM
(Both Days)
Join the Vancouver Waitlist
$1,497 for Couples | $897 for Individuals
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